On my walk back to the hotel this afternoon, I stopped outside the hotel for a smoke. While I was there, I was approached by a woman. She told me that her and her alcoholic boyfriend (husband?) had gotten into a fight and he had left her stranded in the city. She needed to get home to her two kids in Chesterton or some such suburb. She already had $15 and the bus ticket would be about $30. I gave her the money. Am I a sucker?
As synchronicity would have it, I ran across an article from Freakonomics when I returned to the hotel entitled How Pure Is Your Altruism?
Mostly it talks about donating to disaster victims, but also:
We’ve had a lot of conversations on this blog about charitable contributions. For instance: where people like to give, and why; how a young philanthropist should disburse $70 million; whether to give to a street beggar, a hot dog vendor, or neither.
And from the Economics of Street Charity, I relate to this part:
Although I’m atheist, I defer to Jesus on beggar-related matters. He said, if a man asks for your coat, give him your cloak too. (Actually, he said if a man “sue thee at the law” for the coat, but most beggars skip the legal process.) Jesus did not say: First, administer a breathalyzer test to the supplicant, or, first, sit him down for a pep talk on “focus” and “goal-setting.” He said: Give him the damn coat.
What would you do, confronted by the hot dog vendor and the beggar situation? What would you do in the situation I just found myself in?
Continuing with the ethical theme of this post, here’s a cute video about doing the right thing. It’s a little long (10 minutes), but worth it.






You did the right thing. Your kindness and generosity are the important matters. There is much that could be shared about this, perhaps a later time. For now, know that it’s an honor to know you.
I think you’ll like to read the obituary about Elena Sendler, you’ll find it in today’s Trib, http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/chi-obit_sendlermay13,0,210624.story
At the end of the piece is this quote from Ms. Sendler: “Every child saved with my help is the justification of my existence on this Earth,” she said, “and not a title to glory.”
More could not be said.
Thanks. I appreciate that.